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Baby...it is different!!!

 Man, so I have been adjusting to this new body and it has definitely taken some getting used to.  It is so weird to get the body you have literally dreamed of.  I can't lie I am so scared that I will gain weight and lose this all, but I know that won't happen at all because I am being careful. Now, mentally it has been taxing....like I have no idea sometimes because I am so overwhelmed at times.  Even when I look in the mirror I see someone else, and that has been my struggle.  I have closed myself off to the world because I am in such a protection mode that it's crazy!  I have allowed myself to almost become a hermit if it is not work related.  Like, I haven't done anything but work, and I need to have fun, but my trust is a whole other issue.  "Life can only be what you make it," Mary J. Blige.  Y'all, I have made my life so solitary that it is a damn shame. I am working on getting past that, and I am really going to put myself out there, ...